Newcomers Meeting 

We are glad that you are here!

At the West Essex Group, this is our primary meeting. This is because the Primary Purpose of Alcoholics Anonymous is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety. This is an open meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous. We are glad to see you here — especially newcomers.  

“The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking”. 

You will find our Newcomers' Meeting upstairs in the 'Clare Room' of the Becket Centre at St Thomas of Canterbury Church.  

These meetings follow a regular pattern of weekly themes: 

  • 1st Friday in month - Reading of Step One, with a speaker sharing their experience and opportunity to share back as a group. 
  • 2nd Friday in month - Reading from Living Sober, our tools of recovery followed by a speaker sharing their experience and chance to join in sharing. 
  • 3rd Friday in month - reading an AA pamphlet/leaflet followed by a speaker's reflections and sharing back our thoughts. 
  • 4th Friday in month - Roulette wheel will be spun, to choose one of 36 recovery topics for a speaker to talk on and opportunity for group members to share back their thoughts. 
  • 5th Friday in month - Three Legacies Check-in, to share on our experiences of Growing into service. 

It is suggested that you attend at least 6 meetings of AA to decide if our Programme is for you. It is suggested you keep coming back to us for 6 meetings before you decide to fully make yourself at home with us and adopt us a your Home Group. 

What to expect when you arrive 

We, West Essex Home Group members will aim at all times to: 

  • Greet you on arrival
  • Take you to the room where the meeting is happening
  • Offer you a refreshment
  • People will introduce themselves to you, or 
  • You can take a seat and take a few moments alone to orientate yourself
  • The meeting will then be opened up by a 'secretary' 
  • The topic will be introduced
  • A speaker will share what we call 'experience, strength and hope' 
  • The group will share their thoughts back 
  • We will go for a social gathering after the meeting and this is already your invitation to join in!

Just come as you are, and we will be pleased to meet you. We have as much to learn from you as you to learn from us. Go easy on yourself. Take things one day at a time. Your healing has already begun. Keep coming back!

After a couple of months - you will be ready to level up your recovery and join our Active Service Crew! 

Some videos for you to consider...
The following links take you videos that are outside of AA. We pass no opinion on each video, but many of us have found them useful. 

Am I an alcoholic?

Am I an alcoholic? This is a big questions to answer. How do you know if you are an alcoholic? Unfortunately there isn't an easy answer. Almost everyone struggles with denial over addiction in some way or at some time. There are warning signs but not sure fire answers. Only you can decide if you are but that may take a long time to finally accept.

Do you want to stop drinking?

You might say "I want to stop drinking" but do YOU, really want to stop drinking? Are you doing it for yourself or someone else? Do you think you can go back to drink some time in the future?

Why can't I just have one drink?

Can you have just one drink? We all know alcohol lowers your inhibitions but I tried to give this some context. It's the first drink that does the damage, it starts the cycle of the next drinking session. If you are the kind of drinker I was, then managed drinking is not possible.

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Fridays @ St Thomas of Canterbury, Woodford Green, 557-559 High Road, Woodford Green IG8 0RB 

DOORS OPEN 7.15PM - MEETINGS START 8PM. 

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